29 years ago, The United Church of Canada did something historic when it voted not to exclude gay and lesbian people from eligibility for ministry and membership. This vote was celebrated by many and brought communities together. At the same time, this vote proved deeply divisive for some communities. Iridesce is asking people to reflect on this time and this decision throughout our history. 


Collected here are reflections, stories and community art that reflects our time of personal and community remembering, acknowledging, lament and sharing around topics of LGBTQ2+ experience in The United Church of Canada, from the time of our 1988 vote, through 'the issue years', up until today. You are welcome and invited to share about your experiences too.

I would like to say to gay, lesbian, or trans Christian people, 

we are blessed to be Christians know...

I was there in 1988 and I remember how joyful I was that the United Church was at last accepting of...

I’d like to tell gay, lesbian or trans people that there are more people like me out there… willing...

Dear United Church, 

I love someone who identifies as LGTB2SQ?. 

Thank you for being proactive and wil...

Kai, I have heard your story and it broke my heart. I have one grandchild who was identified as a bo...

I’d like to tell gay, lesbian or trans Christian people that I’m sorry that other Christians have be...

I’d like to tell gay, lesbian or trans Christian people…

. that God, with perfect love, made you on p...

In the 1960s, as a thirteen year old teenager, I dealt with a bisexual father and a mother with repe...

I am a trans nonbinary person who was introduced into the United Church of Canada when I met my amaz...

I’d like to tell gay, lesbian or trans Christian people that I am offering my compassionate presence...

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add your voice to the conversation. 



To contribute your perspective or experience: write, make a video, create draw, paint, collage, collect artifacts… it’s up to you.

Email your contribution to livingapology@gmail.com along with a signed consent form. Download the form: PDF or .docx

Stories can be as anonymous (or not) as you prefer, and will never be shared without your clear consent.

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