

Apology and the Community of Concern
Dear United Church, The thing that hurt the most was the way our minister, in Ottawa, a member of the Community of Concern, manipulated...


About an apology
Dear United Church, I worry that this apology, if it is given, will be motivated by many people who for the most part should be the...


Call to put words into action
Dear United Church, I will accept your apology if you put your words into action by no longer allowing churches a choice of performing...


We stood up for black families…
The time I spent in Arizona when our congregation accepted the 1st Black family into our all-white congregation. That was 1960 and it...


An apology seems less important than the opportunity to share stories
I am lesbian. I am a Minister. I am new to The United Church. I am grateful for the decision of 1988 — as messy as it was at the time and...


Work from consensus
Dear United Church, The thing that hurts the most is how we have neglected Christ. We rarely refer to him, in our purported national...


Her daughter came out, then she was asked to leave
My wife and I were married 31 December 1988 by the female minister of my wife’s United Church (just northwest of Toronto). The minister...


I was there…
I don’t think there is “the Church” that can apologize for its members/adherents. The United Church is so diverse across and within...


What is an ally in the church?
. a person with passion . a person with information gained through reliable sources . a person who listens… with an open mind… to hear...


You said I would never be alone
How do I heal without my Christian church brothers and sisters? You said I would never be alone. You welcomed me into your church then...





